In some ways the computer can be even more deadly than the cell phone in that there are so many ways it can screw you. It’s is a leaky bucket from which all your secrets can drain out, a virtual treasure trove for anyone who cares to look. There are many people who have been cold BUSTED because they weren’t smart enough to plug the holes.

All it takes to plug the holes are a little common sense, some knowledge and time. If you’re lucky enough to not share a computer with your spouse or significant other then it’s a little bit easier. If you do happen to share a computer then it’s a bit harder but by no means impossible. I’ll start with the most obvious things and move on to the not-so-obvious. This is by no means a complete list so if you have any ways to protect yourself we haven’t mentioned here then by all means, let us know at info@themoderncheater.com

We’ve only been live since Valentine’s Day but we’ve been marveling at the feedback we’ve received. Some of it’s been angry, some sad, and some thanking us for telling the truth. The response has been so overwhelming that we’ve decided to open it up to you, our readers, so if you love us or hate us or just want to rant and would like to write a guest post drop us a line at info@themoderncheater.com.

Speaking of guest posts we have some exciting new things happening here on TMC. Starting soon, there’ll be a new feature Mr. and Mrs. Jones, written by, well, Mr. and Mrs. Jones. No, they’re not really married but they’re people who’ve written to us with stories about their respective spouses so similar that they might as well be married. They have some interesting, informative and surprising things to say. Stay tuned!

Thanks to TMC’s first guest poster, Austin, who’s here to tell you ladies, just because you give your man that fairy tale sex, doesn’t always mean there will be a happy ending.

You might not always like what Austin says but you have to love the way he says it. Read, then let us know what you think at info@themoderncheater.com or get at us on twitter @ModernCheater. Or, you can reach the man himself at Austin@talk2austin.com or on twitter, @Talk_2_Austin  or at his website www.talk2austin.com. So, without further ado…

Where The Hell Are Your Morals?

Here we go again. Whether you are single, married, dating or just dying for a quick hook-up, your friends and family probably have a lot of advice to give you.

Date this person because they have these qualities. Stay away from that person because they lack every imaginable attractive skill known to mankind. Do. Don’t. Stay. Leave.

You name it.

A few years ago I had a chance to read a book called “Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay” and I have to admit that, for someone who is rarely at a loss for words, this book seemed to know exactly what I was struggling with at the time. Namely, I had fallen out of love with my friend while admitting that my spouse and I had never really been in love in the first place.