Be Our Guest

We’ve only been live since Valentine’s Day but we’ve been marveling at the feedback we’ve received. Some of it’s been angry, some sad, and some thanking us for telling the truth. The response has been so overwhelming that we’ve decided to open it up to you, our readers, so if you love us or hate us or just want to rant and would like to write a guest post drop us a line at info@themoderncheater.com.

Speaking of guest posts we have some exciting new things happening here on TMC. Starting soon, there’ll be a new feature Mr. and Mrs. Jones, written by, well, Mr. and Mrs. Jones. No, they’re not really married but they’re people who’ve written to us with stories about their respective spouses so similar that they might as well be married. They have some interesting, informative and surprising things to say. Stay tuned!

We’re also about to debut Hiding In Plain Sight, a series by a man who survived a near-death illness only to find that even as he recovered, his marriage was (and is) on life support.

Today we’ll be debuting our guest post section and the very first one is by our man Austin.

The Clueless 99.9%

Austin is a man who says what he means and means what he says. You might not always like what he says but you gotta enjoy how he says it. We hope this is the first of many from him.

And finally, a feature we’re very excited about, Survival Stories. We know you’re a survivor…

So tell us about it.

Here at TMC we read. A lot. We read everything we can find on relationships and then, we do what most people don’t: We go out and we talk to people and we listen, yes, listen. There is no one right answer to how to break up, even though many ‘experts’ would have you believe that there is.

You had an affair and stayed in your marriage? Are you happy? Good.

Your spouse had an affair and you couldn’t forgive them and are now single? Are you happy? Good.

You chose another path altogether. Are you happy? Good.

No, great. Just like no two affairs are the same – no two breakups are the same and no two reconciliations are the same. So we want you to tell us your story. This is your safe space to share how you were affected and how you reacted. Tell us the good and the bad, but tell us the truth so others can see that while there is no right answer, there is one right outcome:

You need to find happiness for yourself and for those you love most.

So, tell us. TMC is listening.

That’s all for now folks, again, we’re excited to hear from you so don’t ever hesitate to drop us a line at info@themoderncheater.com or follow us on twitter, @ModernCheater.

Take care, and remember, if you can’t be faithful, be careful!

TMC